At 5 years ask you what will you be when you grow up? and one would answer, teacher, mother, wife, dancer, doctor, fireman, autronáuta, billionaire, police or thief as my brother (for what they all were police officers) or the occupation of our parents for being the center of our admiration.
If, at our young age we are very clear about what we want to be .... But then, one grows and it gets hard, and your dream of being a mom, wife, teacher or a dancer does not depend on you only, it turns out there have a dad, husband or talent to be, and then decide to make a more realistic life plan ... " When I grow up I'm getting married" "when I'm 25, I have 3 children and I live in a big house " or just say " after I graduate I'm going home!" ....
But the plan may fail if the 25 end up with your bf / gf, still do not have the ideal job and still living in your home to your bed for 15 years and is That's when you say what I do with my life? what went wrong with my plan? where to begin to reconstruct the plan? I have no bf / gf, I have a good job, I have no children, live with my parents and also am the unic @ Solter @ my friend @ s , there a lot of social pressure.
1 .- For singles When you have novi @ ,
2 .- For the couple When you get married? ,
3 .- For the newlyweds When you have children ,
4 .- and first timers When parents have the second? .
Conclusion:
The best plan is to live every day thinking that you (in a sense a bit selfish) save money for your future and not wait for anybody, because nobody is waiting for you. Think what you can have and not cling to what is not up to you, so focus to seek better jobs and achieve economic stability can be a good start, then the children will love and if it comes to love (for women) if you have children (with inseminancón). If you have not already are great and you're living your future ...
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